NYE

I've talked to just about everyone and we all seem to be in a state of complete confusion about what's happening for New Year's Eve. Any ideas? I'm hopelessly confused...

http://www.bignightsandiego.com/ -- dumb location? too expensive?

www.sfinxproductions.com -- gotta rent a tux? too expensive?

here's a big comprehensive list also... http://www.sandiego.com/newyears_events.jsp
house parties? -- i dunno?
Help me decide on an event for NYE....HELP!! :)